beza mmg berbeza. part 2

السلام عليكم

entry kali nie sangat amat serius kerana saya tengah dalam mood sedih, terkilan, benci, marah, bengang, bengkek, menyirap, sawan dan banyak lagi la.

so apa beza " saya bukan benci dia, cuma tak suke je"

ok, bila kita marah emosi kita memang takkan stabil. we tend to say thing that we are going to regret at the end of the day. benci dengan tak suka ni or in English hate and dislike. the different are actually very small. it's just the matter how deep the feeling is. when we hate somebody, we dont even want to see that person face till the day we die. but dislike is like we are uncomfortable with something but we still can take/ handle it. like i say it depends on the situation. when we are angry, sometimes we dont really mean what we say. it just a slip of a tongue.

however, we often come across people who cant differentiate those two feeling. hmmm... we heard people say ' benci tau!' when they are just uncomfortable with that person. please people, evaluate what you really feel before saying it out loud. it hurts you know; to know that somebody hate you.

langkah menangani sekiranya seseorang menyatakan yang mereka benci anda.....

let say somebody say; aku benci ko. sila jawab begini, (dengan muka kerek) 'ade aku kesah' pas tu blah. sebelum meninggalkan tempat kejadian, sila toleh balik and tarik nafas panjang sebelum cakap " aku benci ko banyak mana ko benci aku." then gelak evil!! please note that, you have to leave that place ASAP to avoid sekysen 302 from happening.

tapi jangan la saling membenci. kitakan bersaudara. mane la tahu 1 fine day you'll marry to that person family ke ape ke. kan dah jadi kes nanye tu.. (tah betul ke tak ejaan aku tu, hentam saja la labu). ke let say you are in time of need ke. hmm.... something to think of.

p/s: aku memang motivator 1st class kan... huahuahua..