when everyone around me keep reminding me that honesty is the best policy, i've learn that truth are also sometimes not worth knowing. reason?? because when we know the ugly truth, we'll somehow broke our heart. what kind of truth that will make us miserable?
hmm.... that is one other thing to think about. as for me, my friend once said, sometimes honesty is like a dark chocolate, good but bitter. when we choose to be honest with somebody about something, did you realize that there are thousand and even million of consequences that we have to face.
ok let me gave you an example. you slip your tongue and you tell you friend's secret to your other friend who happen to be his enemy. however, you didn't do it on purpose. and to avoid 'war' from happen, you decide to tell you friend what you have told your other friend. reason :
a. you love both your friend.
b. it's not like you do it on purpose.
c. you feel guilty if something bad happen.
d. you are not a back stabber.
against all odds, you tell your friend and what did you get? bunch and bunch of cursing words. nice one!! ~sigh~
hmm... the thing is, for some people who always seek and want to know the truth, they cant handle the truth. ask yourself, why you want to know the truth when at the end of the day, you are the one suffer because of it. yes i'm scared of the truth and tired of lying but the truth always fail me. i see many people lie and they are happy with it and some just satisfied with the ugly truth.
it's not about the ugly truth or the sweet lie, it's about living your life to the fullest. if you want to lie all your life do it. if you want to be honest to life, go on. just remember, be truth to yourself. because the only person you can lie is yourself.
for those who hate liars, think again. you also cheat in one way or another. people are just people baby.
p/s: yes, i'm a big fat liar but i never lie about how i feel and what i want.
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