the selective panda..

hmm..

according 2 u..

according 2 my lecturer, we(women), should be selective like panda.

did u know?

panda is a very selective animal. reason? hmm.. panda doesnt simple get intimate with any panda. panda choose which panda that it want to be intimate with. so, it will be hard to get panda to mate.

hmm.. hard 2 believe rite??

believe it or not...

why i'm telling u all this?

we should be selective like panda. every1 wanted to have a happy marriage and in order to do so, we must choose wisely. dont simply tangkap muat. but then again what is da criteria of a good husband/spouse?

1. is it rich?
2. is it good looking?
3. good cook?
4. know how to do house chore?
5. smart?
6. romantic?
7. not smoking?
8. understanding?
9. steadfastly?
10. loving?

and the list went on and on and on. i still remember a friend of mind, she used to has this very long list of her Mr. Right. at certain point i asked myself ' is it possible 2 get someone who have all the criteria?' ok everything on the list is too much, at least half of it. it is possible?

how can we measure happiness? by big house, big car & big wife? if there's a family how only own a motobike and lived in a flat but they love each other, does it count? u have all the money in the world but ur are alone. u dont even know where ur husband is. does it show that u r happy? happiness lies in the person themselves.

before u being too picky, look at urself. do you have all the criteria that u put in the list? u must realize that nobody is perfect. we get marriage to complete each other. sometimes we dont understand our partner but then that's the beauty of learning and accepting our partner.

yes, we must choose wisely. however, be realistic. try to give and take. if u are too picky, u want some1 as equally good as u, it wont be possible. let say u are a doctor, how many doctor, at the same age as yours & at the same level as u and have everything u want in ur life partner? trust me u'll find at least 1 or 2 n that particular person normally was taken or married already. come on, people always take & want to have the good stuff k!

u can be selective like panda but u must know how u adjust urself. and remember 1 thing. never said that u'll never be the second wife. dont be too sure. God has His own planning. if He want u to be the second wife, there's nothing u can do. we can only plan. dont be too arrogant. believe in the power of love.

enjoy ur beautifully imperfect life partner..

watch and learn..

the little imperfections that made them perfect..