kemaafan dendam yang terindah..

have u ever been in a situation where u did a lil mistake (i mean very little one!) but the other person took it like u've done a big sin (like u have literally kill dat person)

never?

really?

think again...

ok..

let me give u some example..

situation A:

tesl nite.
place: a hotel in kl
time: nite
theme: white with a splash of blue (4 sem 1 teslian)

we seated at a round table. 1 group of sem 7 students were going to perform. dancing jai ho by pussycat dolls.

(u can go 2 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GSVb2CDXw6w 2 noe more bout da situation dat nite )

we were dancing n enjoying ourselves when suddenly our senior, a malay girl who r quite sexy pass by. my fren accidentally knock her shoulder. it is not that hard. just slightly touch it. my other frens and i were the witnesses of the whole incident. my fren quickly say sory. and u nie what that senior do?
huhu.. she turned back and smile n said it's ok.. ok biggie..
hush!! i wish that's what happen dat nite..

nope.. that's not what really happen..
what happen is..

she turn back and say f**k.. yup she said that 4 letters word.. and give us a very stern, i'm so hot u r not look.. man!! dont even bother to listen to when my fren apologize again. siut man.. after that, whenever we meet that senior, we call her the f**king girl.. we even have dis stupid joke when we saw her parking her car.

' the f**king girl trying 2 f**king her car near the f**king place..

ape aku mencarut nie.. astafirullahhalazim... my goodness..

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situation 2

place: komunter
time: 9 sumthing / weekend

there r new govement policy where they put the middle coach ladies only. yup ladies coach.. 4 ladies only all the time.

it was a very busy weekend, everybody were rushing and they want to get into da komunter or lrt, i dont noe.. i just nie it's da long thing that took us from 1 place 2 another. suddenly a boy enter da ladies coach. every1 including me was wondering ' what the heck is dis boy doing here? cant he read?'

but 1 girl was brave enough to tell da boy that he entered tha wrong coach. a big round of applause to her.. u go girl!!

girl: hei u, dis coach is 4 girls only.
boy: yeah rite!! said who?(wif a very snobbish look, maybe he thought dat girl was trying to make conversation with him)
girl: really..
boy: (dont even bother to listen, playing wif his phone)

after a while, he realize his mistake. he quickly took his stuff n get out. dont even bother to apologize to the girl. siut man!!

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ok enough of example. if u want more i'll give u next time.

what i'm trying to say here is sometimes people make mistake. yup! mistake not sin.
they tend to say wrong things and words when they r angry and mad..
they accidentally kick u instead of kicking da ball when u r playing futsal..
they slip their tongue n tell u secret to other people..

ok not that they purposely do it..
sometimes things happen without we can even control it.
dont get upset so quickly.
chill..
think bout that thing from other person's perceptive..

sometimes saying nothing, be quite is better than saying everything..
it only hurt more people..
learn from ur previous mistake..
learn to forgive..
sometimes forgiving people is easier that keeping grudge..

i noe i've hurt many people with or without i realize it..
so i'm sori..
mmg khilafku...

sahabatku,
ku rasakan perlu,
menulis surat buat tatapanmu,
sekali ini aku rela..
merendah diri, beralah
agar perhubungan terjalin semula..
sahabatku,
tak mungkin ku tahu,
apa tersurat di hati kecilmu,
andai aku yang bersalah,
maaf saja,
kemaafan dendam yang terindah..