Showing posts with label ladies zone. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ladies zone. Show all posts

Sunday, October 23, 2011

aku tanpa cinta mu...





there's a girl, standing in front of a door..
waiting, wondering, hoping, wishing, and praying..
that one day the guy that is made for her, just her to come..
the answer to her long pray..
to make her happy, to love her, or just to complete her..
if he make it in her life, she'll give him everything, make him her world..
if he never show up, she'll be a very, very, very
LONELY GIRL...
somehow she knows that he will come in her life..
even just in her dreams..
she is still standing there..
waiting...
for her knight in shining armor ..
in heavy and long rainy night...


aku mesti pernah cerita dengan korangkan yang aku yang perfectly imperfect ini selalu, sering, kerap digelakkan bila aku bagi tau yang aku tak pernah bercinta or even jatuh cinta. hahahaha... silakan, jemput la kalau korang rasa nak gelak! jemput2... ke nak tunggu kad jemputan? shuts!!!

so what kalau aku tak pernah jatuh cinta?? does it make me unhuman? slightly retarded (memang pon!) ? hilang hidung ke? ~sigh~

selalu aku fikir, aku yang serba kekurangan ni mampukah kecapi bahgia? (wah, ko nyah! ayat tak menahan) tapi aku tahu janji Allah tu pasti. akan tiba masanya hadirlah dia yang memiliki separuh jiwaku. syurga buatku. rasa yang terindah dalam hatiku. so, kenapa mesti aku, yup miss Q aka si selipar jepun, miss kbai, miss pooh, miss-macam-macam-lagi-nickname-aku-sem-nie, harus tergopoh2? bukan ke kesabaran itu manis buahnya? aku nak menanti dan terus menanti. sebab aku tahu saat dia datang, aku rasa hadiah untuk setiap saat, detik aku bersabar.

ok, find aku dah pernah sebut pasal cinta aku dulu. ini kira entri kedua aku pasal cinta aku. ye, aku fully undertand why korang rasa boring dengan kisah cinta aku nie. ye, kisah cinta saya tak best macam cinta azzam dengan anna, tak sesadis cinta landon dan jamie mahu pun seromantik cinta adam dan nur. tapi ni blog aku, so kalau korang rasa nak baca kisah cinta orangg lain sila la tekan next blog dekat atas ye!


nape aku citer pasal cinta hari nie?
dah tak emo ke miss Q??
ke dah derita merindu?
bukan kanak2..
bukan sebab tu..
sebab..... hehehehehe
aku dah ok dah.
jiwa dah tak kacau.
alhamdullilah....





Thursday, April 28, 2011

phobia cinta...

assalamualaikum and hello there...

i dont have philophobia, i've agliophobia..

what phobia is that?? hmmm... i dont know, i only have ranidaphobia and musophobia...
philophobia is the fear of falling in love or fear of love..
agliophobia is the fear of pain or being hurt.

well, in that case i've agliophobia too then. i still remember a friend of mine tell me that ' never fall in love, fall off the bridge, it hurts less'. i dont know about it. never fall in or off anything. so, when i do, i'll let you guys know. but it is true if we was hurt so deeply by someone we love so much, we'll tend to hurt other too as revenge? hmmm....

the thing is nobody is perfect. the person you love before is not the same as the new on. maybe she/he is not meant for you. just accept the fact that something are just not meant to be. right now i feel that it is very easy to say because i've never been in the situation. hmmmm... not really, i've seen the person that i love so much get hurts. all i know is when someone really loves you, they will never hurt you. and if they do, you'll see that in their eyes.... they are hurting too. that what i know and i know it for sure!

if you love someone, tell that person. if that person dont love you, you got nothing to lose. just let go. if it comes back, that's how you know that it meant to be yours forever. if it's not then just go to the nearest store and buy chocolate and eat them! hehehehe....




Friday, March 25, 2011

true Q: pretty ugly..

Hari nie aku panas ati sikit sebab aku rasa macam terhina. Ok fine! Bukan macam tapi memang! Yes aku rasa terhina. Satu statement telah membuatkan aku sentap sesentap sentapnye! Pernyataan yang sememangnya hakikat... Gini cite dia..
 
Ada satu hari tu aku dengan geng kerik aku kluar gi minum.. Serius kesian dekat dia sebab bila aku lapar je aku cari dia. Kema, ummi, mira, yufi tah berape ramai lagi yang selalu jadi mangsa temankan aku makan. Padahal aku bukan makan sangat pon sebenarnya.. Pasal pas aku makan bukan wajib sedawa tapi wajib muntah. Sadis cite nie...
Hello miss Q!! Side track again..
Ok back to the future.. Tengah- tengah aku makan tibe tibe aku terasa getarnya. Terkeluarlah statement panas, mendidih n kontroversi. 'lelaki cuma cari perempuan yang cantik je'
say what?????
Pergh.. Gua dah panas dah...
Seriously guys?
Are you kidding me!
Tibe-tibe terdetik dibenak aku...
Sape yang letak penanda aras cantik tu??
Kau??
Aku??
Atau juri malaysia's most beautiful??
Hmmm....
Weeee... Cantik tu benda?? Anak sape?? Macam mane??
Kata cik MiMi.. Cantik tu macam cinta.. SubStrak.. Subjective + abstract..
Beauty lie in the eye of the beholder. Pada aku cantik dah kalau dia cakap tak mencarut. Cantik dah kalau dia tak suke tikam orang dari belakang. Cantik kalau dia tak merokok. Cantik kalau dia pakai sopan. Cantik kalu dia sayang mak ayah. Cantik kalau dia hormat orang. Cun sudah kalau dia tak gedik mengada- ngada. Cun saja kalau tahu masak sikit - sikit.. hahaha.. Mesti korang kata senangnya nak nampak cantik depan aku.. Jawap aku senang... Tak perlu jadi perempuan melayu terakhir depan aku untuk nampak cantik. Cukup jadi diri sendiri. Yup! Be who you are, say what you want coz those who mind doesn't matter and those who matter doesn't mind..

Aku tak paham la. Macam mana yang baru betul - betul cantik? Adoiyai... Sakit dada aku memikirkannya.. (chillex la miss Q!bukan masuk exam pon!)

Apa gunanya kau berlebih besar.
Tiada hodohnya kau kurang jelita.
Kerana apabila kita selami,
Sempurnakah kau didalam hati?
Tiada bezanya tinggi atau rendah.
Kau tetap manis walau tak secerah.
Terimalah bagaimana kita dicipta,
Didalam diri pastikan sempurna!

Adalah motipp kalau kita hanya cari yang cantik. Gi bukak google search cari orang yang cantik. Pastu tanya diorang. 'Couple yok!' Mesti diorg tak nak punye. Unless korang matlutfi90 ke.. The other khairul ke.. Zaxx in the house ke... Hahaha.. Gini la.. Allah pon dah janji lelaki yang baik untuk perempuan yang baik and vise versa. Bukan lelaki yang handsome untuk perempuan yang cun. Bukan2.. So?? Renung - renungkan dan selamat beramal!


Pesanan buat jejaka- jejaka diluar sana. Memang kami bukan secantik siti nurhaliza, tak sejelita rozita mahupun semanis heliza. Tapi nilailah kami sebagai kami. Yes! Kerana yang cantik itu pasti pudar. Namun aku pasti yang tetap akan tinggal ialah perasaan yang indah..
Ok mesti boys and guys yang bace entri nie akan kata aku berat sebelah sebab aku girl. Haruslah aku baking girls kan. Nope. I'm liberal. Yes, i agree with you guys. There are also girls that search for hansome and good looking boyfriends.  so it equal and normal. We want a perfect partner but note that, we dont come to love by finding a perfect person but by loving an unperfect person perfectly. Beautifully unperfect!
 
To my sweetheart.. Saya tak cantik macam girl lain out there sebab saya tak suka make up nie sume.. Hidung saya tak mancung, mata saya tak bulat...(weee.. Bakpe aku kutuk diri sendiri nie! Motipp...) Tapi saya boleh jadi cantik untuk kamu.. Just for you.
 
Doa aku.. Tuhan kirimkanlah aku kekasih yang baik hati.. Yang mencintai aku apa adanya... Amin.

Friday, March 18, 2011

so not my boyfriend!!

9 of the World's Worst Boyfriends

Published on 6/28/2010 under Strange People - by Gracie Murano -

Jebidiah James Stipe: the ex boyfriend who used Craigslist to arrange woman's rape

Jebidiah James Stipe: the ex boyfriend who used Craigslist to arrange woman's rape
A Wyoming man was accused of posing online as his former girlfriend and soliciting someone to act out a violent sexual fantasy. The advertisement appeared on Craigslist in December 2009. "Need a real aggressive man with no concern for women," read the posting on the Internet classified advertising forum. Its purported author was a Casper, Wyo., woman, whose photo also was posted. One week later, a man accepted the offer, forcing his way into the woman's home, tying her up and raping her at knifepoint. "I'll show you aggressive," he allegedly said, according to court testimony. In fact, the woman had nothing to do with the ad. Instead, a former boyfriend had posted it, soliciting her assault.

Actually, Jebidiah James Stipe, 27, posed as his ex-girlfriend and placed the ad seeking an aggressive man. Two days later, she spotted it and contacted the Natrona County Sheriff's Office, as well as Craigslist, which took down the ad. But Ty Oliver McDowell, 26, had allegedly already seen it. He e-mailed the address listed in the ad and told authorities that he and the woman exchanged instant messages, and she described what she wanted -- "humiliation, physical abuse, sexual abuse," -- and gave him her home address. Only he was in fact communicating with Stipe. According to McDowell he thought he was fulfilling her rape fantasy. He was arrested and charged with first-degree sexual assault, aggravated kidnapping and aggravated burglary. Stipe was also arrested and charged with conspiracy to commit first-degree sexual assault. (Link 1 | Link 2)


David Simmons: the man who sent sex pictures of ex-girlfriend to her family as Christmas cards

David Simmons: the man who sent sex pictures of ex-girlfriend to her family as Christmas cards
David Simmons, 57, from Murfreesboro, took photographs of his ex-girlfriend, without her knowledge, that showed her performing sexual acts on him. After a nasty break-up, Simmons sent the picture to the woman's relatives as Christmas cards. Some family members opened the cards, while others were intercepted by the woman before they were opened. He was arrested in connection with eight counts of unlawful photography against his ex-girlfriend, criminal impersonation and vandalism. He was sentenced to two years of probation after he pleaded guilty to distributing sexually explicit Christmas cards of his ex-girlfriend. What a lovely memory of Christmas her family will have. (Link)


Michael Vinson: the boyfriend who robbed his pregnant girlfriend for beer money

Michael Vinson: the boyfriend who robbed his pregnant girlfriend for beer money
Vinson's girlfriend thought she was ready to deliver their child and told him she needed to go to the hospital. Instead of taking her to the hospital, he punched her in the head twice, waved a knife in her face, threatened to kill her, robbed her for beer money and hung up the phone when she was trying to dial 911. What a gentleman. The woman eventually got help and made it to the hospital, where she was treated for the injuries Vinson caused. As far as we know, it was a false alarm and the baby still hasn't been born yet but we hope she has a happy Mother's Day, just the same. (Link | Via)




Jacoby Smith: the boyfriend who beat up his armless, legless girlfriend in "self-defense"

Jacoby Smith: the boyfriend who beat up his armless, legless girlfriend in
There are very few things on this planet that earn you a one-way ticket to hell. Beating up a quadriplegic girl because she's blocking the television is probably one of them. Jacoby Smith, who sounds like a real sweetheart, thought the appropriate way to teach his girlfriend, Tiesha Bell , not to roll her wheelchair in front of the TV set would be physical confrontation. He hit her in the face 10 times in order to get his point across. Smith doesn't deny the attack, but is quick to note that he did it in self-defense. Bell had both hands and both legs amputated due to a childhood illness. He also claims that she had been cheating on him prior to the fight and that the amputee also threw her bed pan filled with urine at him during the altercation. Is there really anything else to add at this point? Actually, there is. Bell still plans to marry him. "We both need anger management," she said. (Link | Via)


Duane Lang: the HIV+ man who faked HIV test to get his girlfriend into bed

Duane Lang: the HIV+ man who faked HIV test to get his girlfriend into bed
A Queens man passed off a fake HIV test on his girlfriend to deceive her into having unprotected sex with him -- though he was actually HIV positive. The unnamed woman wouldn't go bareback with Duane Lang, 47, until he submitted proof of his status, so he fabricated a document from the AIDS Center of Queens County in Rego Park saying he had tested negative in a rapid HIV test. (The AIDS Center's medical director confirms that the document is a fake -- his name is even misspelled on it.) In March the woman got suspicious and he admitted not only that the test was fake, but that he'd been positive for years. The HIV status of the woman, who had unprotected sex with Lang several times, is unknown. Lang was arrested and charged with reckless endangerment and forgery. He faces up to seven years in prison if convicted. (Link)


Santiago Martinez: the boyfriend who murdered girlfriend for refusing to help him bury previous girlfriend

Santiago Martinez: the boyfriend who murdered girlfriend for refusing to help him bury previous girlfriend
An American man described by a judge as "a savage beast" and "the face of evil" was convicted of murder after killing his girlfriend when she wouldn't assist him in disposing of the body of his previous girlfriend, who he had also murdered. 28-year-old Santiago Martinez was sentenced to die by lethal injection after jurors took only 30 minutes to decide his fate. The first murder victim, Christina Wilkerson, 28, of Long Beach, was stabbed 20 times in the face, neck and body, and then shot point blank with a .22 rifle. Myra Orozco, 24, the second victim, was stabbed and slashed close to 30 times in the face, neck and body before Martinez pushed the mortally wounded woman from the car they were sitting in, then ran over her. Both murders happened within a month. (Link | Via)


Edtition Thompson: the man who impregnated girlfriend's 11-year-old daughter, faked his death, fled home state, and had his family hold fake funeral

Edtition Thompson: the man who impregnated girlfriend's 11-year-old daughter, faked his death, fled home state, and had his family hold fake funeral
A Buffalo man faked his own death after getting his girlfriend's 11-year-old daughter pregnant. Edtition Thompson is now facing possible life in prison. The 33-year-old fled Buffalo last summer and had his family staged a fake memorial service. After being arrested he has already faked a heart attack and suicide attempt. (Link | Via)


Jennifer's boyfriend: the man who broke up with his girlfriend by leaving signs on a busy road

Jennifer's boyfriend: the man who broke up with his girlfriend by leaving signs on a busy road
Being dumped isn't fun at the best of times, but imagine one Australian woman's surprise when her boyfriend publicly finished with her by leaving signs on a busy road. The woman, named Jennifer, has become the talk of New South Wales after she was dumped in what could be one of the most embarrassing public break-ups of all time. The mystery woman's supposed lover erected five separate signs overnight on the area's busiest road. His feelings started out as romantic, with ‘Jennifer, will you marry me?' But the proposal was quickly followed by two very different signs: ‘Just kidding' and ‘I'm breaking up with you'. The final rather blunt sign simply read: You have six days to move out.

NOTE: later on, two boys admitted it was only a joke. (Link 1 | Link 2 | Via)


Graydon Smith: the man who made his pregnant girlfriend sign a contract allowing him to pound her

Graydon Smith: the man who made his pregnant girlfriend sign a contract allowing him to pound her
Graydon Smith's career in contract law is off to an unpromising start. Police were called to the Haller Lake home of the 31-year-old's parents. There, Smith's pregnant 19-year-old girlfriend told them that her boyfriend had threatened to kill her. She took these threats seriously because Smith had beat her up in past. He'd also asked her to sign an "abuse contract:" a letter that stated he was free to pound on her as much as he wanted for perpetuity, so long as he avoided her pregnant belly. When cops contacted Smith by phone he denied the abuse. But strangely, he admitted to the part about the contract. Which in a way is an admission. Or at least an admission of profound stupidity. For some reason, it took cops another month and another incident to arrest Smith. This time, it was his stepfather who called 911. The dad had confronted Smith after he watched him choke his girlfriend for 10 seconds. Unhappy with the interruption, Smith tried to land a shot on pop's face but only ended up with a glancing blow.
When cops arrived they found the girlfriend bleeding from the face with a contusion on the back of her head. Smith was arrested and charged with second-degree assault, two counts of fourth-degree assault and two counts of felony harassment. (Link | Via)

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

aku dokter cinta??



السلام عليكم

Dah beberapa hari aku tertanya – tanya. Termangu – mangu, terpinga – pinga.. hmm... soalan yang sibuk bermain – main dibenak hatiku. Aku silap amik kos ke? Hmm... ke muka aku ini memang muka masalah? Dari aku kecik sekolah dulu, nie cerita dolu- dolu la. Zaman choki – choki dengan super ring dulu. Member – member aku selalu mintak tolong aku, minta advise sebenarnye. Kalau advise kewangan ke, akademik ke, sukan ke tak pe la jugak. Aku still boleh accept lagi. Nie tak! Ade ke patut tanya aku pasal C.I.N.T.A! memang tak patut. Tidakkah mahluk Allah semua ini sedar yang aku! Ye aku bukan kamu tak pernah bercinta! Silap kaunter la beb!

Hmmm... sebab tu sekarang nie, dalam kepala lutut otak aku nie ade macam – macam falsafah cinta, idealogi la, metadologi la.. dan macam- macam lagi la! Hmm... not to say that i am a good adviser when it comes to love matter. Sometimes love is not something that we need to figure out. We need to experience it to know what love is really all about.

Kadang tu ade yang call 2, 3 pagi tanye macam ner dia nak wat dengan awek dia. Adoiyai.. sawan aku! Belum lagi kes nangis – nangis meleleh air liur. Kalau dah tahap nie memang aku lemah! Pasai pa, chek x pandai pujuk orang merajuk! Mintak maap banyak – banyak no chek!

When people say:

~ love means you dont have to say i’m sorry.

Bullshit!! When you are in love, you have to say i’m sorry thousand of time. Reason? You dont want to hurt you love one feeling that why you keep on explaining and begging for forgiveness and understanding!

~ love at first sigh.

Ok fine! It happens but seldom. Like one in a million. It takes time . espeacially if you been hurt before.

Banyak lagi nasihat. Tapi kena jumpe personal la.. mne boleh main bubuh je kan! Tak gitu tuan penasihat??!!!

So people, any heart, feeling and love problem? Just call me! Harga boleh runding!

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

get to know ur lady...

A) Tanah – anak pertama, kelima, kesembilan.

B) Air – kedua, keenam, kesepuluh

C) Api – ketiga, ketujuh, kesebelas

D) Angin- keempat, kelapan, keduabelas






WANITA BERUNSUR TANAH


1) Merendah diri, serta hormat dan patuh, setia serta rela berkorban.

2) Tidak cerewet, tidak meninggi diri, tidak sombong dan bukan seorang pemarah.

3) Tenang diri, aman, dan memberi sokongan.

4) Tidak suka membantah atau membangkang.

5) Berwatak manis, lemah lembut, bersih dan sentiasa menjaga kecantikan.




WANITA BERUNSUR AIR


1) Menghidupkan hati pasangan dan pemberi semangat.

2) Mengambil berat

3) Hatinya bersih dan boleh membahagiakan pasangan.

4) Menenangkan pasangan

5) Sangat romantis

6) Mudah menangis


WANITA BERUNSUR API


1) Cintanya sentiasa hangat dan memberahikan

2) Cergas, cepat dlm gerak geri dan tangkas menguruskan rumah tangga.

3) Penasihat yang baik

4) Pandai dan cekap mengurus rumahtangga

5) Pandai menghias diri agar kelihatan cantik selalu

6) Berwaspada selalu



WANITA BERUNSUR ANGIN


1) Lemah lembut dan menenangkan

2) Pandai bermain kata dan memujuk rayu

3) Sopan santun dan berbudi pekerti mulia

4) Bijak mewujudkan suasana selesa.

5) Hati yang cepat berubah ubah

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

the selective panda..



hmm..
according 2 u..
according 2 my lecturer, we(women), should be selective like panda.

did u know?
panda is a very selective animal. reason? hmm.. panda doesnt simple get intimate with any panda. panda choose which panda that it want to be intimate with. so, it will be hard to get panda to mate.
hmm.. hard 2 believe rite??
believe it or not...

why i'm telling u all this?
we should be selective like panda. every1 wanted to have a happy marriage and in order to do so, we must choose wisely. dont simply tangkap muat. but then again what is da criteria of a good husband/spouse?

  1. is it rich?
  2. is it good looking?
  3. good cook?
  4. know how to do house chore?
  5. smart?
  6. romantic?
  7. not smoking?
  8. understanding?
  9. steadfastly?
  10. loving?
and the list went on and on and on. i still remember a friend of mind, she used to has this very long list of her Mr. Right. at certain point i asked myself ' is it possible 2 get someone who have all the criteria?' ok everything on the list is too much, at least half of it. it is possible?

how can we measure happiness? by big house, big car & big wife? if there's a family how only own a motobike and lived in a flat but they love each other, does it count? u have all the money in the world but ur are alone. u dont even know where ur husband is. does it show that u r happy? happiness lies in the person themselves.

before u being too picky, look at urself. do you have all the criteria that u put in the list? u must realize that nobody is perfect. we get marriage to complete each other. sometimes we dont understand our partner but then that's the beauty of learning and accepting our partner.

yes, we must choose wisely. however, be realistic. try to give and take. if u are too picky, u want some1 as equally good as u, it wont be possible. let say u are a doctor, how many doctor, at the same age as yours & at the same level as u and have everything u want in ur life partner? trust me u'll find at least 1 or 2 n that particular person normally was taken or married already. come on, people always take & want to have the good stuff k!

u can be selective like panda but u must know how u adjust urself. and remember 1 thing. never said that u'll never be the second wife. dont be too sure. God has His own planning. if He want u to be the second wife, there's nothing u can do. we can only plan. dont be too arrogant. believe in the power of love.

enjoy ur beautifully imperfect life partner..
watch and learn..


the little imperfections that made them perfect..

Sunday, July 25, 2010

guys out there.. take note.

8 THINGS A GREAT GUY WOULD DO.

  1. Make you smile when you’re down.
  2. Gives you a kiss, even when friends are watching.
  3. Holds your hand in a perfect time.
  4. Be funny, but knows when he needs to be serious.
  5. Reacts so cutely when you hit him though it actually hurts.
  6. Stares at you when he thinks you didn’t notice it.
  7. Gets a little jealous sometimes, but knows he’s the only one you love.
  8. Waits for an hour just to spend 5 minutes with you.

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